Boris spilled paint on Amber's toys ... They got into an argument and now are not talking. In this lesson Dave and Boris explore forgiveness and basic restorative practice. Boris eventually learns the role he can play in harm reparation and cleans up his mess to show Amber that he is serious about restoring their friendship.
Materials Required: bowl, dirty coins, vinegar, salt, and a kitchen towel
Age Group: Early Elementary/KS1
This lesson cross references the SEL Core Competency: 'Relationship Skills.'
This lesson cross-references with B-SMS 1. B-SS 2. from the ASCA Mindset and Behavior Standards.
UK:
CF4: Caring Friendships - that most friendships have ups and downs, and that these can often be worked through so that the friendship is repaired or even strengthened
CF5: Caring Friendships - managing conflict
Biblical Insight:
Jesus is the one credited with saying forgive 7 times 70 times (Matthew 18:21-22)! Forgiveness is a big deal in Jesus’s teaching. But notice how in Matthew 5:23-24 Jesus explains that if there is some wrong between 2 friends, they should physically go to each other and reconcile. Forgiveness is more than a mental process; it has a concrete component. This is why after Peter denies Jesus 3 times, Jesus asks Peter if Peter loved Him 3 times. Jesus forgave Peter and then gave him a chance to clean up his mess (John 21:14-17), and He ultimately restored Peter to his place of leadership. Asking for forgiveness doesn’t mean one has to undo all the wrongs they’ve done in the past; you’ve been forgiven. However taking actual responsibility to mend the relationship is an essential part of the forgiveness puzzle.
Additional Scriptures: Matthew 6:14, Colossians 3:13
Boris wants to share his toys with the Scrapman... In this lesson, Dave and Boris explore boundaries and how to resist inappropriate social pressure. Stephanie teaches students how to identify levels of friendship.
Materials Required: pencil and paper (colored pencils optional)
Age Group: Early...
Boris tries to befriend the skunk ... But Boris doesn't speak skunk. He can't communicate successfully. Dave and Boris explore friendship and vulnerability, they discuss how true connection is based on honest sharing of needs. In this lesson children will learn how to communicate effectively and ...
Boris has been sent to his shed ... In this lesson Dave and Boris talk about how to handle conflict so that both parties create connection. Dave talks about how winning an argument, can in reality be losing connection ... and might lead to being sent to the shed.
Materials Required: pencil and ...